New Mood-Management Strategy: Make an Acceptance Plan
We
sometimes use food because we want to eliminate negative moods quickly,
but sometimes it’s better to accept the situation. Whether you’re
feeling sadness, anger or anxiety, try to identify the source of your
low mood. If it is something you can change, sketch out new solutions.
For example, if a co-worker is annoying you, role-play with a friend
about how you can be more assertive with the person. If, on the other
hand, the situation is something you cannot change at this time, try to
accept it. Breathe deeply and often. Take time to relax your muscles,
especially your head, shoulder and neck muscles. Visualize a pleasant
scene. It’s also a good idea to try to remember the big picture -- your
values and goals -- and work on a plan of acceptance, rather than
avoidance. You may, for example, have a difficult job, but you and your family need the income.
I found this on iVillage: Ways to Break the Cycle
I found this on iVillage: Ways to Break the Cycle
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